
Dealing with your parent’s stubbornness
Sylvia’s Story: A Life of Colour, Love, and Resilience
Today at Acacia Homecare North West Surrey, we are celebrating our lovely customer, Sylvia H. At first glance, Sylvia immediately captures attention with her beautiful, colourful hair that reflects her vibrant personality. Now in her late 80s, she has lived a life full of love, music, and resilience—and she continues to shine with the same spark that carried her through her younger days.
In our recent conversation, Sylvia shared experiences from childhood to the present, as well as what she looks forward to. When asked about her teenage years, she smiled and recalled a defining moment: “I got married when I was just 18 to my husband, Roy.”
Personal Style & Confidence in Later Life
Sylvia has always carried herself with style and confidence. Her soft waves frame a face that still lights up when she talks about modelling for Vidal Sassoon, a real style moment of her younger years. Today, Acacia Homecare supports her well-being and independence. Her flair and zest shine just as brightly, showing how care and personal style can bring confidence and joy at any age.
Music, Joy & Wellbeing in Homecare
As a young woman, Sylvia loved visiting Woolworths to choose the latest singles and albums. She often picked songs with lyrics she could sing along to, especially by Nat King Cole and Frank Sinatra. “Unforgettable” by Nat King Cole holds a special place in her heart as it reminds her of her beloved Roy. Even today, music is a key part of her daily home care, bringing joy and supporting her well-being through holistic elderly care.
Love & Resilience Through Life’s Journey
Among her fondest memories is going ice skating in Richmond, where she met Roy, her lifelong partner and husband. Moments like these celebrate companionship and the joy of sharing life with someone special.
Reflecting on the biggest changes she’s witnessed, Sylvia didn’t hesitate: “Hitler!! The war took my dad and my brother and a lot of friends. It changed the world completely for me.” Those years gave her strength that’s still with her today, showing the profound role of elderly care in supporting independence and helping individuals face life’s challenges with confidence.
Achievements & Living a Fulfilling Life
When asked about her proudest achievements, Sylvia’s answer was simple: “Just having been here is enough to be proud about.” She also cherishes marrying Roy, building a life together, and being known for her iconic car in the community. Her story exemplifies how personalised care and promoting independence enable seniors to live fulfilling, meaningful lives.
Maintaining Wellbeing and a Positive Outlook
What keeps Sylvia feeling young is her outlook on life and wisdom from her mother: “Myself and my attitude. My mum always said, ‘wherever you go, leave before the end.’” This cheerful spirit keeps her radiant.
At Acacia Homecare North West Surrey, we proudly support customers like Sylvia to live well and independently. With our office conveniently located in Sunbury-on-Thames, we’re always close by to support customers across Sunbury, Ashford, Walton-on-Thames, Chertsey, and surrounding communities.
Our compassionate team delivers tailored services including medication support, dementia care, respite care and daily assistance, all designed to promote wellbeing and independence. For Sylvia, that means enjoying music, companionship and the life she loves.
If you’re looking for exceptional home care or live-in care services in North West Surrey delivered with a personal touch, we would love to hear from you.
Discover how Acacia Homecare can make a difference in your life or the life of a loved one. Contact us today to learn more.





