Respect Individual Autonomy

For the Caregiver: Involve the individual in the decision-making process. Recognize that they take pride in their independence and autonomy.

For the Care Recipient: Acknowledge the expertise and experience of caregivers. Understand that family and carers want what is best for you to keep you safe and comfortable. Don’t assume that they are just trying to interfere or take control to make your life harder.

Maintain Open Communication

For the Caregiver: Encourage open communication about needs, concerns, and preferences. Pride can make it difficult for people to express their vulnerabilities, so create space for dialogue and be patient.

Actively listen

For the Care Recipient: Be receptive to advice and feedback. Try to be honest and open by sharing your fears and worries and explaining how certain situations make you feel. This will help caregivers and family members understand your reluctance and, in turn, be more sensitive to your needs.

Preserve Dignity and Respect

For the Caregiver: Recognize that pride stems from a desire to maintain dignity. Approach tasks with respect, and avoid interactions that could undermine the individual’s pride. Aim to preserve their sense of self-worth.

Respect personal boundaries

For the Care Recipient: Accepting help can be difficult. Be clear with your caregiver about how you like tasks to be done and what your preferences are. Also, be open to new methods that may help you maintain your independence and keep you safer.

Collaboration

For the Caregiver: Involve individuals in their care plans. This can help them feel empowered and engaged in their own well-being, which positively contributes to their pride.

For the Care Recipient: View the care process as a partnership with your caregiver and family. Aging or living with a disability can be challenging, but the support you receive is meant to help you remain as independent as possible and in the place where you want to be. Seeking and accepting assistance is a strength, not a weakness!