Respect Individual Autonomy:

The caregiver: Involve the individual in decision-making process. Recognise that they take pride in
their independence and autonomy.
The care recipient: Acknowledge the expertise and experience of carers. Recognise that family and
carers want the best for you to keep you safe and comfortable. Don’t assume that they are just
trying to interfere, to take control and make your life harder.

Maintain Open Communication

The caregiver: Encourage open communication about needs, concerns and preferences. Pride can
make it difficult for people to express vulnerability so create space for dialogue and be patient.
Actively listen.
The care recipient: Be receptive to advice and feedback. Try to be honest and open, share your fears
and worries and how situations are making you feel. This will help the carer or family member
understand your reluctance and in turn be more sensitive.

Preserve Dignity and Respect

The caregiver: Pride stems from a desire to maintain dignity. Approach tasks with respect and avoid
interactions that could undermine pride. Aim to preserve the individual’s sense of self worth.
Respect personal boundaries.
The care recipient: Acceptance of help can be difficult, be clear with your caregiver on how you like
tasks done, what your preferences are. Also be open for new ways that are suggested that may help
maintain your independence and keep you safer.

Collaboration

The caregiver: Involve individuals on their care plans, this can help them feel empowered and
engaged in their own well being and contributes positively to their pride.
The care recipient: View the care process as a partnership with your carer and family. Aging or
disability is tough, you are receiving support to keep you as independent as possible and where you
want to be. Seeking and accepting assistance is a strength not a weakness!